The beauty of being useless

  Much of pain is caused in many lives because of the feeling of being of no use, or our doubt that we are a meaningful contribution, that we are doing enough or doing it good enough. The pain is not just caused by the named above, because most people suppress more or less successfully … Continue reading The beauty of being useless

Help- I am authentic!

In my work with children it was amazing to see, how quickly certain fears could be released and conducive pattern installed often with hardly any effort, while at the same time other themes were so stuck and unmovable to the frustration of the parents who loved to see their kid happy and successful. With time … Continue reading Help- I am authentic!

Do I waste my time?

This morning I got an interesting question. Is it possible that my fear-based me (ego) interferes with my desire to fully live life and to fully enjoy and surrender to my human being, the energy I embody on this earth. How can  I really know if my mind is not just fooling around with me … Continue reading Do I waste my time?

Embracing and loving what you once despised

As promised I share today the next two great steps in internalizing a ‘hidden’ part of us.  In my last blog “No… not again…”I shared that it starts with accepting that a trait is also in you and then, after some time, perhaps a week, day, month or even years you will get invited to … Continue reading Embracing and loving what you once despised

No… not again…

Most of us know that when we encounter something that is disturbing to us, it’s a hidden part in us, we don’t want it since it has hurt us when we were exposed to it, or we were ashamed, punished or ridiculed when we innocently exhibited such behaviour. If we belong to the group that … Continue reading No… not again…

Neediness is a blessing

Being needy is something that is generally speaking not that popular in our society,  being independent is what is expected. Yet if we look at neediness just as an ability, it’s to acknowledging our needs, and being open to get them fulfilled. With a good dose of disappointment you might not even really want to … Continue reading Neediness is a blessing

Dare to desire

This Sunday my daughter Triziah had a performance in church and for that I also went to share this experience with her. While I was singing those nice songs about the love of God,  my eyes got wet like every time when I sit in church.  Today I decide to have a look into that. … Continue reading Dare to desire

A weekend attack

This weekend I got heavily attacked! Out of nowhere on Saturday evening, very strong emotions took me into their grip. An intense sadness and hopelessness with lots of tears and the only savior was a big pack of tissues rescuing me. This raid lasted for some hours and only in the early morning hours I … Continue reading A weekend attack

A very special birthday gift

These weeks are our family birthdays. My son celebrates today 24th of May and my birthday is on 4th of June.  My daughter’s is a few weeks later on 11th of July. This year it’s a bit strange that out of whatever reason, I am likely becoming aware off now, most of my family members can’t … Continue reading A very special birthday gift

Making the step to be fully determined AND to stay playful

Here I am again.  I did my intervention and by the way, lots of other things happened that would have been actually also very interesting to share.  I still need to get used to share my invitations on this blog as soon as I experience them.  It’s part of my topic of today, because I … Continue reading Making the step to be fully determined AND to stay playful