Get the feeling of having all the time of the world…

Time is a rare commodity.  With the excuse of lack of time, we rush from one place to the other, try to do as much as we can within a given timeframe. Productivity and efficiency are values we seem to accept automatically as being normal and needed.  We need to organize our time, to have … Continue reading Get the feeling of having all the time of the world…

Do you know the fertile ground where your earthly being thrives?

Our earthly being is what we live every day EFFORTLESSLY. Some of the traits we might love, some costs us a lot (any addiction like helping, shopping any stuff, working, drugs, etc.), some we hide, some we would love to change, some we hate, some we have accepted and with some traits only you know what you do with them.

Please don’t try to make this earth a better place

It’s our attachment to the “good”, our fear and inability to be with our (hidden) pains that make us run from one thing to another trying to make a good life, a better life. Trying to make the lives of others better. And by running and running in avoidance to be confronted with pain and to miss out on the promised ‘good life’ we miss out on life itself.

Life is a playground not a school

For the longest time I belonged to the group of people that think that we have to learn and to develop in life in order to live a life by own design. I could have not been more mistaken read here why....

Joy and happiness have nothing to do with each other. Read here how not knowing this sabotages your life choices.

That I lived for the longest time in limbo and dissatisfaction was because I intermingled those two words — happiness and joy — those two words have actually nothing, and I mean really nothing to do with each other. Let me share one of my biggest illusion. I thought always that joy is just a … Continue reading Joy and happiness have nothing to do with each other. Read here how not knowing this sabotages your life choices.

The beauty of being useless

  Much of pain is caused in many lives because of the feeling of being of no use, or our doubt that we are a meaningful contribution, that we are doing enough or doing it good enough. The pain is not just caused by the named above, because most people suppress more or less successfully … Continue reading The beauty of being useless

A very special birthday gift

These weeks are our family birthdays. My son celebrates today 24th of May and my birthday is on 4th of June.  My daughter’s is a few weeks later on 11th of July. This year it’s a bit strange that out of whatever reason, I am likely becoming aware off now, most of my family members can’t … Continue reading A very special birthday gift